I’m sure you’ve heard before that it takes only a few seconds to form a first impression… and once those opinions are formed, they are extremely difficult to change. A good first impression is everything… and a GREAT first impression can open up a world of opportunities! So what are the key components of a GREAT first impression?
Here are some exclusive, insider tips for making a GREAT first impression…
Set an Intention
This is a great habit to get into… While you’re getting ready for an event, consider who you would like to meet, what kind of interactions you want to have, and what you want others to think about you. This activity will help focus your energy during the event.
Dress to Impress
Be sure to pick an outfit that is not only appropriate for the occasion but also brings you joy and happiness. Do a dress rehearsal and follow these exclusive insider tips for decoding the dress code!
{For Women} Black-Tie: Elegant floor length gown with fancy jewelry Black Tie Optional: Dressiest gown or favorite cocktail dress Cocktail: Dresses knee-length and above or an elegant jumpsuit with some fun jewelry Business Formal: Matching suit set or a crisp blazer with a skirt or slacks, along with a colorful silk blouse and heels Business Casual: Trendy blouse with slacks or a stylish dress
{For Men} Black-Tie: Tuxedo with black bow-tie or long tie Black Tie Optional: Tuxedo or suit Cocktail: Dark to mid-gray suit, necktie, and pocket square Business Formal: Suit and tie Business Casual: Long sleeve dress shirt and slacks
Suggested Cocktail Attire
A Smile Goes a Long Way
According to the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, an attractive smile is the main factor in making a positive impression. Warm, confident and genuine smiles make you feel better about yourself and others… plus they are unforgettable!
Body Language
Posture that is strong and self-confident, along with open and natural, is important. Stand up straight and uncross those arms for a positive first impression! During conversations, use facial and body expressions to non-verbally communicate your emotions. Lastly, eye contact is essential… but not too much and not too little! Look long enough to note the color of the other person’s eyes—thanks Dale Carnegie!
Shake It Out
A good handshake goes a long way. In fact, a handshake might make or break a job interview! Master a confident handshake with practice and helpful feedback from friends and family. You want to deliver a handshake to impress, not a handshake to avoid!
Be Yourself
Even if you get nervous meeting someone new, always be your authentic self! Most people can immediately tell if you are being fake… and you certainly don’t want that for your first impression. Share the true you with everyone and they will be undoubtedly drawn to your confidence.
About GTD
Gayle Theodora Drake, owner of GTD IMAGE CONSULTING, is a highly trusted source in fashion and style in the South Bay, as well as the greater Los Angeles area. GTD works with women and men of all ages and backgrounds who want to invest in their image and how they would like to be perceived by their network of friends and peers.
“It is truly a wonderful, uplifting experience to have Gayle involved in one’s life. I highly recommend her services for image management, both personal and professional.” —GTD Client
